self-confidence

What we mean by self-confidence?

A feeling of trust in one’s abilities, qualities, and judgment.

It is the believe of our abilities and internal strengths

Self-confidence is very important for each person if he need to be excellent and successful in his life. It is very essential if you need to improve you self and live with peace and comfort in every activity of your life. Because it will help you to tell your opinions and thoughts freely without fair of not expected from the others or the fair from failure because what ever happen to you you will have the confidence in yourself and you still believe that you are strong enough to try again and again.

The most important that how to gain the self-confidence?

In the beginning my advice is to discover yourself, discover your strengths and weakness .discover when you lose yourself confidence . Is it when you meet strangers?

Is it when you face some specific problems or incidents?

If you search in your life, you will find that you do not loss your confidence all the time, but in some places . you should look at it,  discover from where you got this feeling. When it stars ? I am sure if you go deeply in your life you will find where is the issue and how it starts. So it is easy for you to solve your problem.

Here are some advices to gain self-confidence:

    Do not worry about doing mistakes because no body is complete. We are human been so it natural to make some mistakes and learn from it. The important thing is to learn from this and trust our self no matter what happen to you. Also you have to believe that Allah give you the something special ,some thing others also don’t have .what I mean is everyone is strong in some sides of his personality as the others also have something special in their personalities.

    "Fake it until you make it" this is a wise saying I liked. If you want to have self-confidante you should behave like that in your communication, walking and dealing with others in all life activities until it become a part of your personality.

    The other advice is to look at any personality that you like to be like him or her, lock how they behave how they do in the thing you want to be like and you can imitate it with things can fit to your personality.

    (Knowledge is power) better to read more and more about your weakness and how to improve you self to better than you will gain the confidence. (FAiz)